Workshops

 

If you aren't finding success in dating . . .

It's your technique.

Anyone can change their technique. Anyone can find greater success if they know what to do.

Finding success in dating requires that you change the way you think about dating, yourself, the opposite sex, and your behavior.

The It's Not You. It's Your Technique workshops series helps you do all of this with 2 1/2 hours of instruction and personalized goals once a month.

You will find a new outlook, attitude, and confidence as you practice new techniques over the next five months, meet your goals, and obtain dating success.

Testimonials

"How I got 9 dates by 09/09/09" - read full story

View video clips: click here or images below.

 

Short thank you letter from workshop participant . . .

Dear Alisa,

I can't tell you enough how much your Boot Camp helped me. I was so happy and confident when I left. Before coming to your workshop, I tried to encourage all of my friends to go with me. They kept complaining about the cost, which I didn't think was that much to begin with. Now I believe I can easily convince my friends (espeically since they can see the changes in me already) by simply saying, "You have no idea how much information you will get there. It truly is amazing and worth every penny."

Thanks for all you did for each of us at the workshop. We all left with personalized goals. That was amazing and worth the money alone.

Sincerly, Janis

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It's Not You! It's Your Technique.

Workshops Series

for this five month workshop series in either

Salt Lake City

Time: 6:00 - 8:30 p.m.

  • Dates: The second Tuesday of each month
  • March 9th
  • April 13th
  • May 11th
  • June 8th
  • July 13th

Each session is recorded for those who are unable to attend.

Place: The Hampton Inn at 425 S. 300 W. in Salt Lake City, UT.

Cost: $55 per workshop with a $55 registration fee *

For men and women 18 - 80

Registration is limited to 25 people

Participation requirements and rules apply **

A workshop description is provided below.

Ogden

Time: 9:30 a.m. - Noon

  • Dates: The Third Saturday of each month
  • March20th
  • April 17th
  • May 15th
  • June 19th
  • July 17th

Each session is recorded for those who are unable to attend.

Place: The Marriott at 247 24th Street in downtown Ogden, UT.

Cost: $55 per workshop with a $55 registration fee *

For men and women 18 - 80

Registration is limited to 25 people

Participation requirements and rules apply **

A workshop description is provided below.

    Learn how to:

    • Get and maintain the attention of the opposite sex
  • Pursue with strength and confidence
  • Flirt with class and style
  • Handle rejection well (men)
  • Get him to ask for your number (women)
  • Master first dates and secure second dates
  • Pace dating to increase momentum and interest
  • Reduce anxiety, pressure, or over-thinking
  • Avoid the too-nice and good-for-now traps
  • Get past the first six weeks and into a relationships
  • Recognize the potentially abusive, manipulative, dishonest, and exploitive
  • Enjoy dating and have fun again

 

A 200 page workbook is included with the workshop to help ensure your understanding and retention of these technqiues and skills.

*A $55 registration fee is due up front and represents a commitment to all five of the workshops in the series. This registration fee is non-refundable once the workshops begin but is applied to the last workshop in the series for those who complete the workshops. Registration will be closed once 25 people have pre-registered or once the first series begins in March, so be sure to apply now.

**Participation requirements: Participants are required to set three goals per month at each workshop and are accountable to a charity of their choice for $20 per month if they do not meet their goals. Alisa Goodwin Snell will provide assistance in creating goals. Rules for participation apply. To make sure you are eligible for participation click here.

To read and view testimonials from previous workshop and Boot camp participants click here.

 

Workshops Description: Series 1 - 5

Series 1
Includes:

* You can be right OR you can be effective
* The 8 Be Effective Facts
* Fear Vs. Faith
* Unlocking the truth that will set you free
* Goal development
* Personalized Goals
* and Chapters 1 and 2 of the It's Not You. It's Your Technique. book manuscript.

 

Series 2
Includes:

* Make them feel great - the essentials of flirting and pursuing
* The Rejection Plan
* The 17 secrets to the male and female psychology
* A good faith effort - how to recognize and give it
* How to tell if someone is investing in you
* Skills for trusting, relaxing, and letting go
* The Seesaw Principle and it's connection to mature relationships
* Goal development
* Personalized Goals
* and Chapters 3 & 4 of the It's Not You. It's Your Technique. book manuscript.

 

Series 3
Includes:

* The RULES - Essentials for managing the first phone call and securing dates
* Keeping it real
* Avoiding the too-nice-guy, "just" friends, good-for-now-girl, and other traps
* Tools for avoiding and managing early rejection
* Internet dating and safety
* The 3 Date Rule for Identifying the potentially abusive and manipulative
* Power and control: how to recognize those who share it from those who don't and why it matters
* Managing fear and maintaining faith
* Goal development
* Personalized Goals
* and Chapter 5 of the It's Not You. It's Your Technique. book manuscript.

 

Series 4
Includes:

* The RULES - Essentials for managing the first six weeks
* Timing, pacing, and building momentum, week by week
* The purpose of A and B List dates
* 3 fold goal of dating: have fun, practice, and make them feel great
* Techniques for encouraging a kiss
* The RULES for avoiding sexual contact
* Utilizing the 17 secrets and the 7 to 11 rule to build relationships
* Goal development
* Personalized Goals
* and Chapters 6 of the It's Not You. It's Your Technique. book manuscript.

 

Series 5
Includes:

* The RULES for becoming exclusive
* Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling and how to avoid them
* Communication essentials
* Respectful techniques for soliciting and confronting difficult issues
* Skills for creating and maintaining a secure attachment
* Steps necessary to secure commitment and progress to engagement
* Are you safe, compatible, and committed? - tools for assessing each
* Goal development
* Personalized Goals
* and Chapters 7 of the It's Not You. It's Your Technique. book manuscript.

 

 

If you have difficulty completing the application process, you may contact Alisa directly at alisa@askalisa.org or (801) 447-6000. Please note, your e-mail address will not be shared with any advertising agencies.